Sunday, February 19, 2006

taking a turn for the worse

TAKING A TURN FOR THE WORSE

Just this.

She's fine now.

I should have told him there and then to get out.

I know what I have to do.

22 Comments:

Anonymous firetiger said...

take the kids and get the hell out! I've just read your previous posts about what he's like, and to be frank, he sounds like a bastard, and that's not a healthy environment for your kids to grow up in. Go and be happy! xx

8:40 PM  
Blogger Sapphire said...

I just want to tear him apart limb from limb.

8:47 PM  
Blogger pack of 2 said...

What a fucking JACKASS!!!!! He is so mean and I hope that you can get yourself and your children out of that situation soon.

Angie

9:41 PM  
Blogger Wenchy said...

I am sitting here in almost cold anger.

Are you okay?

9:45 PM  
Blogger a fish on a bycicle said...

I'm so sorry.

There are twenty people you know here who will help you to get out if needs be. You know that? They're not just pretend friends.

Until you can be with S.

9:51 PM  
Blogger RaggyMaggy said...

(((deadly and kids)))


my parents stayed together longer than they should have - they did me no favours.


i usually keep quiet - but i am here.

love and hugs xxx

9:57 PM  
Anonymous doctorlucy said...

Hey, I just wanted to stop by and say thanks for posting on my journal, and offer you some support really. I can't agree more with the post above. My parents tried to separate when I was younger, and ended up getting back together platonically for my stability to maintain the family unit. I know is sounds harsh, but it's the worst thing they could have done. I'd have been a far happier and well rounded individual if they had of stayed separated. I know my mum did what she thought was best at the time, but I think things could have been better if she'd just walked away. In my opinion children feed off their mother, and if they see you're unhappy, then that will affect them, without you even necessaritly realising it. I know it did me. I'm sure they'll respect you for it in the long run. I know I would in their shoes!

10:46 PM  
Blogger CycleGuy said...

My thoughts are with you DF.
I don't know what I feel more, anger towards him or concern for you and your girls.

11:51 PM  
Anonymous Joy said...

Hi! I was just bloghopping and got hold of your site. I had read some of your entries. Can't help to comment on this one...

Your husband seems so mean, pathetic, and a loser. I pity you and your children. My heart really breaks for your younger child. Perhaps she doesn't take a full grasp of what's happening now but she'll be lost at any point in time.

How can we share happiness with others, if we are not happy within?
By all means, go and fly, be happy with your children.

I feel for you. Take care!

12:30 AM  
Blogger Mermaid Girl said...

Oh darling girl...sigh.

Do what is right for you and your children, only you know what that is.

All my support.

Love & Hugs
MG

12:43 AM  
Blogger Numpty said...

Excusez moi pour Francais, but what a complete and utter wanker..
DF, you need to leave him, any man that can even contemplate hitting children or woman doesn't deserve to exist, it's heinious to say the least..

1:01 AM  
Blogger EE said...

(((DF)))

Dear, what is going on is NOT ok. Like you said, you know what you need to do. :(

*hugs*

3:01 AM  
Blogger Dustin said...

I am sorry. BUT i have read your blog, If you do not LEAVE this asshole you are ALLOWING him to hurt your children. Tell him to FUCK off and just leave...PErhaps one of them has to die before you open your eyes woman!!!!

3:31 AM  
Blogger Alyssa said...

harsh words that guy left but its the truth!!!

3:33 AM  
Blogger kel said...

I am so sorry. I do hope you and the girls are all ok. I cannot say it any better than it has already been said here. Wishing you nothing but the very best.

3:51 AM  
Blogger MamaKBear said...

I don't have anything to say that hasn't already been said...just leaving you hugs...and strength!

3:55 AM  
Blogger Sis B said...

DF, I want you to call me. If I can find your email, I'll send you my number. If not, email me at sissyben @ gmail . com.

4:56 AM  
Blogger moonwhispers said...

how can we help you?

you are responding after the fact, so you are as ok as you could be given the circumstances. you know what to do, you know what he did is UNACCEPTABLE, and you must protect your children and yourself, NOW.

again, how can we help you? what do you need to help you to make that move?

dear goddess, keep these wimmin in your sight, the small and the adult, light the safe way for them, keep them protected. Namaste.

6:06 AM  
Blogger Aine said...

Oh honey.

I hope she's alright.

8:41 AM  
Blogger addict said...

If you need to talk IRL, I want you to call Sis B.
She's been through all of this too and is a wise survivor.
Honey, I'm so sorry you are going through this...
You are an incredible woman, a strong one and one who knows how to protect and raise her children...
No matter what, you've got my support.

It's only a matter of time, why wait till things get even worse (and they will)...

Warm hugs to you... just put one foot in front of the other, move forward baby...

9:18 AM  
Blogger JD's Rose said...

You know what I think. Love to you and yours.

xxx

5:18 AM  
Blogger Lil Bit said...

what the fuuuuuuuuuuck is his problem????

OMG... I'm pissed after reading that.
Er.... that means mad, Brit, not drunk. heh

That fuckwit! Grrrrrrr

5:10 PM  

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